Saturday, December 7, 2019

MCC Central America Retreat - Siguatepeque

On November 20, 2019, we traveled to Siguatepeque, Honduras. It was a very long trip!! That same night we (the kids) saw someone in the play house shining a light in his face! It was funny and a little scary.

The next morning we went down farther to a play house next to some ranchones. It was fun until we were called in for breakfast.
๐ŸšŒ☕




We played from morning til night (sunset). 

ฮดฯ…ฮทฮดฮตฯ„   ฯ‰ฮฑฮด   ฮฒฮตฮฑฯ…ฯ„ฮนfฯ…l!




One of the tree houses we played in was this one.↓ 
                                                                       

All week we played (except for the grownups).


Playing when the grownups where in meetings was fun the baby-sitters had lots of craft supplies. After lunch we could play outside. Running down the hill was fun. ๐Ÿ˜Š   







⇦⇦ The bakery we went to had lots of delicious pastries, drinks, and ice cream flavors.๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿง
One time we went on a boat it was very big & it had 2 floors!!!
๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข๐Ÿšข



 





The last day we where there, it was Clivia's birthday (one of our baby-sitters). We decided on making teepees out of the paper cups, and painting the phrase 'Feliz Cumpleaรฑos Clivia!' (happy 
๐ŸŽ€birthday Clivia!) ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽ‚



๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜†๐ŸŽ…๐ŸŒฎ๐ŸŽ€๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽ†๐Ÿงต☮☸๐Ÿ’ ⚜๐Ÿšฒ๐ŸšŒ⛲๐ŸŒˆ❄๐ŸŒŸ❄๐ŸŒˆ⛲๐ŸšŒ๐Ÿšฒ⚜๐Ÿ’ ☸☮๐Ÿงต๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽ€๐Ÿณ๐ŸŒฎ๐ŸŽ…๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜œ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿง๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ❤๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿคฆ‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ‍♂️๐Ÿคท‍♀️๐Ÿคท‍♂️✌๐Ÿคž๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Ž๐ŸŽถ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’‹๐ŸŒน๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿคณ๐Ÿฑ‍๐Ÿ‘ค๐Ÿฑ‍๐Ÿ๐Ÿฑ‍๐Ÿ’ป๐Ÿฑ‍๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿฑ‍๐Ÿ‘“๐Ÿฑ‍๐Ÿš€✔๐Ÿ‘€✨๐Ÿค”๐Ÿคข๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿง‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€


by: Lia


Monday, November 4, 2019

Two weeks with Mommy in Mexico

Our work routinely includes travel, and it's not unusual for Rebekah or me to be gone for overnight or a few-day-long trips.

There are other families out there who know how to do longer trips, but we knew that the plan for Rebekah to be in Mexico for two weeks was going to be a stretch.  Rebekah would be part of a three-member program evaluation team for MCC Mexico, and they would travel between Chiapas in the South, Mexico City, and Chihuahua in the north.  The schedule would be full of various meetings and interviews each day, but thanks to internet/WhatsApp, we would be able to send messages and do some video calls on occasion.

Compared the last story about family apart, this one was considerably different.  Even though it was much longer, the opportunity to prepare made it much more tolerable in the end. We had our planning conversations, I mapped out meals for the full time, tried to block out flexibility with work during that time, had some back-up plans for problems that might arise, and so on.

Rebekah flew out early in the morning on Saturday October 12.  As the kids woke up, my first coping strategy was to keep everyone busy.  We did some small house repair projects and made up our Mommy-tracker map that we would update throughout Rebekah's trip.  (I realized later that the map was just as much for me as it was for the kids.)




Since we had made the effort to get the office projector over to the house, we pulled out a mattress into the living room and had a movie night before calling it a day.  Other days were going to probably need to be less ambitious.



It happened to be that there were a number of days during this time that the kids didn't have school, for teacher in-service days or parent-teacher conferences.  We're always glad to have Yahaira and her daughter Elizabeth around to help when school is off but work goes on.  Here's a birthday celebration for Yahaira. Lia made her the crown and designated the birthday chair.



During these weeks Lia participated in NCA's "Eagles-in-training" basketball camp, which met two times a week after school.  Silas and Miriam enjoyed library time while we waited until pick-up time.





Unsurprisingly, it took a while for Miriam to get used to the idea that Rebekah was out for a while. She cried the first few nights, but really mostly settled down and slept through the night well afterwards (or at least I did!)

Miriam still mostly came barreling into the office hoping Mommy might be there.  But she did seem to understand that Mommy would be away for "muchos minutos."


The following Saturday went down to the school apparently to see a basketball game, which we actually had the wrong date for. The kids had fun running in the grass soccer field nevertheless and watching a pavilion construction project.



During the parent-teacher conference days, we saw some of the kids' artwork.  Always fun to see NCA's art program's creative projects and what kids can do with them.








At the end of Rebekah's marathon of meetings, they got the last day to do a little sight-seeing.  They climbed the pyramids at Teotihuacan and she sent us some pictures.



On Saturday October 26, we woke up, had breakfast, got dressed, grabbed our Welcome Home poster and excitedly got in the car to pick up Rebekah at the airport. We were so glad to see her again!  Here's our celebration with frozen yogurt.  No more plans for long separations for the foreseeable future!



Sunday, November 3, 2019

On passports, planes, and family

On July 1, our family went to the airport mid-morning looking forward to traveling to the US to be with family and friends in Virginia and Pennsylvania.  We had just traveled to Colombia a few weeks earlier, and we felt comfortable with this routine with three kids, backpacks, suitcases, and everything.  Our turn came to check in and we pulled our crew and gear up to the counter.  I gave the attendant our stack of passports, all bundled together in a rubber band and waited while he began to go through them.

The attendant asked about Miriam, a question we often get: Does your daughter have two passports?  Yes, I respond and begin to explain as I often do.  No, he says, I don't have her U.S. passport here.

What?! I panicked. Rebekah told me to calm down. But I couldn't think of where else it could be but in the stack of rubber band/passport bundle. We looked through my bags, Rebekah's bags, and tried to think as rationally as possible.

I remembered letting Miriam play with passports on the return trip from Colombia, and wondered if there was a chance it was left behind on the plane.  She would have only presented the Nicaraguan passport coming back to Nicaragua.  While Rebekah started to call back to our office to see if it was there, I hustled over to the airport information booth, where they redirected me to a Copa Airlines office.  No luck on that trail.

I came back to Rebekah and two of our MCC members were on the search in Linda Vista.  They couldn't find it at the office, and were hurrying over to our house.  If they would find it, there would be enough time for one of them to bring it to the airport, but not enough time for us to go over and back before the flight.

I got a call from a neighbor.  "There are two women going into your house, do you know anything about this?"  I laugh a little.  Yes, thanks for looking out for us, Jorge!

Rebekah tells me that they couldn't find it at the house in the closets, drawers, countertop, etc.  Our last thought, other than the passport being simply lost, was to have them look in one of the small office safes. It would be unusual for it to be in this safe and our team members weren't able to get it open.

So among tears and suppressed emotions, I got in a taxi with Miriam and headed back to Linda Vista.  I explained to her that we needed to get her little book for the airplane.  She had her pack of "gummies" (fruit snacks) for take off on her lap.  She opened it, but told me she was waiting to eat them until we were on the airplane.  I told her she should go ahead; I would give her another pack.

We went to the office, opened the safe, and there, at the bottom of the pile inside was her passport. I gave Rebekah a call.  We would need to reschedule the flight, but we at least wouldn't have to wait on the embassy to process a new passport.  Rebekah sent me a picture of the empty seats on the airplane through WhatsApp, and they were off.

We rescheduled our flight for the soonest option with the same airline, two days later.  Miriam and I spent the afternoon picking up a few things and groceries at the mall. Other than Miriam's sadness at bedtime, the rest of that day wasn't so bad, I guess.

And then I got sick.  I'm not sure if it was related to this whole episode or if it was simply a virus (I learned later that Silas got sick too).  The next 24 hours were slow and miserable hours at home with diarrhea and vomiting. I was unsure how traveling alone with Miriam the next day was going to go, but I was not about to miss that flight.



The next day I was feeling better, and Miriam and I went to the airport with lots of extra time to spare, just in case.  There was no problem this time, and we enjoyed watching the planes come and go until it was our turn to board.  Miriam got a new pack of gummies, and we were heading out.

We arrived in Miami and seemed to be on schedule to catch our connecting flight in Miami.  We went on their shuttle train and made our way to Immigration.

As we came up to the Immigration area, we followed the lines down the hall toward the end. Unfortunately we never even found the end.  Everyone was commenting that they never saw the lines this long.  Eventually we got to a place where hallways came together and we merged into the line.  I had WiFi access and started sending some messages to Rebekah and downloading the Global Passport app to see if I could jump over to a shorter line.  But both the line I was in and the WiFi downloading were slow, and I was starting to be concerned about getting to our flight.

The line moved slowly, but it was moving.  I started to feel optimistic, until we came up to the Immigration check-in kiosks and I saw just how many back-and-forth lines there were yet before we even got to the kiosks.  At that moment, the App downloaded, I slipped out of line with Miriam, took our pictures, entered our information and scurried over to the other Global Passport line.

Sadly, these lines were hardly faster. I nervously watched the time and talked with other travelers.  Rebekah had googled and sent me the gate information, and the others there seemed to think it might still be possible to get there in time.

Miriam had fallen asleep on my shoulder by the time we were called up to the official's desk.  I presented our information, he asked about Miriam's mother, I explained, he approved. I started to run as best as I could with a sleeping baby, carry-on suitcase, and Miriam's backpack.

At security, I set Miriam down and she woke up as she started to fall over.  She saw everyone taking their shoes off and immediately followed their example. The time for boarding had now passed, but the plane hopefully hadn't left yet.  I sent a message to Rebekah saying that if she didn't hear from me, she should assume we made it on the plane.

We went through security, and took off running again.   I asked a few people along the way for our gate.  I got some blank looks and repeated my question in Spanish (it's Miami), got my answer and hurried along.  I paused to walk at one moment because apparently I'm out of shape for running with a baby like this.

When we got to the gate, it was empty. As I was setting Miriam down I asked the lady at the desk if it was too late. "I'm sorry, the gate is closed," she told me as she pulled the tape from one post to another in front of me. No! I sunk down with Miriam on the ground on my knees. You've got to be kidding me.  I asked again. Same answer.

In a moment of miraculous mercy, the second attendant at the gate asked if I was waiting on any other family members to catch up to me.  No, just Miriam and me, I said. "I think we can let you get on," he said, and opened the door. I was so grateful.

I clumsily carried Miriam and our bags onto the plane, through the narrow aisle, and we sunk into our seats.  Sweaty and panting, I pulled out my phone to send a message to Rebekah: "We made it." The message didn't go through.  The plane pulled out and we were off.

We arrived in Philadelphia and there were Rebekah and my dad waiting for us.

It was great to be back together.


Monday, September 30, 2019

Painting


It all started Christmas 2017 when Derrick gave me some acrylic paints and canvas as a gift... well, that's how Derrick tells the story anyway.

There was a time when I said I would be an artist when I grew up.  However, as the years passed that seemed less and less practical, and I have always had a healthy dose of practical in me.  Once in a while it did sneak back in.  My last semester in high school I just couldn't take another French class and dropped it for an art class.  In my first year at university I had to take one class from the humanities I chose an art class.  I would have done more, but there were always more practical things to do.

Well, it snuck back in and this time I think I may have found a number of practical reasons to have it stay.

In 2018 I needed a distraction from social media and news. I got out those paints Derrick gave me.
(this was multiple layers of "failed" paintings that I finally washed off in the pouring rain one night which turned into something I really liked, map of Nicaragua drawn on top)

Well, painting canvases was not going to be practical... because space is an issue.  So I found an old set of watercolor paints and started painting cards.  This became an act of prayer and therapy during tense months.

I found that it could also function as an act of love and making cards for people has become one of my favorite times of painting. (plus, see how practical it is, no waste!)


Well, it's been almost 2 years since that provident gift from Derrick.  I've invested in some nice paints, paper, and even a sketchbook- for those times when I can be less practical and just learn and explore.  Derrick says I'm an artist, maybe he's right.  Mostly I'm grateful for a way an activity that is bringing me joy and maybe some others as well.



Friday, September 20, 2019

Geckos and mosquitoes


We enjoy the company of geckos crawling around our house.  They are amazingly fast, can walk upside down on the ceiling, make an interesting chirping sound, and although I've never actually seen it happen, they apparently enjoy eating mosquitoes.  I'm told that geckos were brought in to Managua in the 1990s to help with mosquitoes, although the story seems to vary depending who I talk to.  The names for these creatures also vary from person to person or region to region, possibly because there are a variety of lizard species around here.  So to one person they are cherepos, lagartijas, pichetes, maybe perrozompopos or even escorpiones.  And another person will say absolutely not perrozompopos, that's something else, or absolutely not escorpiones, that's something else, and so on.

Anyhow, here's a fun little song with the kids.




Geckos and mosquitoes

Hello, gecko
Wall racer, mosquito chaser
Where did you go?
Thought you were just here
I stand below
What are you after, up the rafter?
I am so slow
Is it me that you fear?
     Can it be so?
And what if I try to catch you?
I try to catch you
I try and try
Oh, mosquito
I've tried to swat you, thought I got you
At my elbow
Why must you be here?
I stand below
Wasting my time, losing my mind
I am so slow
I need some help here
     Where's the gecko?

Friday, September 13, 2019

You are an artist




I've been trying to convince Rebekah to put together a blog post on her artwork.  Maybe sometime soon? In the meantime, here's a sappy little song.




You are an artist

You take a sheet of plain paper
You take water, water and color
Imagine
Like a prism to light
You bring out life
And a bird takes flight

Walk with you through the ordinary
Sunrise like any other morning
But you invite me to see through your eyes
These are joyful sights
You are an artist
You paint love into where the world is darkest
You bring things together into something beautiful
And that something comes from the beauty that is you
Quiet night at the kitchen light, you're making
The elegant and simple drawn from the invisible, creating
Do you know
Where your art might go
Here a flower grows

Sit with you over summer night ice cream
Crickets singing and creaky park swings
Precious time
Your smile and your bright eyes
You're a joyful life




Wednesday, September 4, 2019

I just want to thank you for listening

Lia in teacher mode, negotiating classroom behavior with Silas and Miriam.

Observations...

1. As I've written in previous posts, sometimes I tend to mull on things and am not as good as I wish I were at processing things through discussion.  Something to keep working on.

2. We live in times of great polarization.  How do we ensure we are hearing one another? Our social networks (in real life or in the digital world) often seem to be narrower than they should be.

3. As a family, we have routine conflicts that we need to work through: finishing homework or a plate of food, following parents' instructions, sharing or not sharing toys, etc. How do we keep our cool and communicate/understand concerns in these conflicts?

Also, thanks again to Lia and Silas for their help with this song.





I just want to thank you for listening

I just want to thank you for listening
taking time to understand
I just want to thank you for pausing
being there you lend a hand

I just want to thank you for sharing
even when it's hard to hear
I just want to thank you for speaking
we must not be held by fear
Hold these words
Take a moment and breathe
In the midst of the noise
We'll find our voice
I just want to thank you for listening
Teach me too to listen well
In your listening you tell me some things
you need no words to tell

I just want to thank you for sharing
hearing you gets me out of me
We will dare to build a bridge trying
to see what the other sees



Saturday, August 31, 2019

The Giant Iguana climbs the hills

A little while back I shared a story of attempting to ride the loop around the Chiltepe peninsula, missing a turn, running late, getting tired, and climbing in a caponera in defeat.  Since then, we've had a number of better runs.  It's been fun. Here are a few rides.



1. Return to Chiltepe

My friend Francisco and I went back on a couple occasions to ride segments of the peninsula.  It was nice to not feel the need to do the whole loop. It was easier to enjoy the beauty of the area this way as well.  On a third run, we rode with a group organized by a bike shop and did the whole loop.  Very satisfying.




2. Los Sarrosos MTB

We made a connection through another school parent to a mountain biking group that rides every Saturday morning.  They are a jovial bunch, calling themselves Los Sarrosos MTB - "the Rusties" mountain bike group.  They take lots of breaks, drink coffee along the way, and are either laughing or out of breath.  The routes are often a lot of up hill climbs, with a culminating ride back down hill.




3. Bikers' breakfast

Last week's ride was actually a little on the shorter side, and some of the riders decided to wrap up with breakfast.  Coffee, gallo pinto, eggs, salsa ranchera, tortilla, and actually the first time I tried leche agria. Leche agria is sour milk and the name has always made me reluctant to try it.  But it's kind of like natural yogurt, and after a bike ride and with good company, it's just fine.




4. Casa to Km 17 Carretera Vieja a Leon to Monte Tabor to Casa

This morning was a ride we had done with Los Sarrosos a few weeks ago, but this time instead of driving to meet up part way, we started from home and rode all the way up the hill, a good 2,560 ft of climbing between pavement and dirt roads.  A nice decent at the end and a great nacatamal made by Miriam's babysitter Yahaira for breakfast.